Monday, July 24, 2023

Gorilla Tactics


A renown football coach once said "if you find yourself in a fight with a 400lb gorilla you don't tap him lightly. You hit him with everything you've got".

His meaning was to decisively, aggressively and intentionally show up and take control right away and the likelihood of ending with a good result increases.

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Sunday, July 16, 2023

To Be a Bear


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Jimmy Johnson, former head coach of the Dallas Cowboys, speaks much of  "scared money" which has become popularized in various circles, But 

                       what does "scared money" mean?

Playing with scared money often refers to gaming as in black jack, for example, when one, afraid of loosing, will wager little money and in return receives smaller gains, if any. 

Johnson, who enjoys black jack, used this philosophy much in football as one who is daring, bold and takes calculated chances, knowing the risks but is willing to put it on the line for 

gains all out of proportion to the investment. 

This may also be related to one's personal or professional life when one has little he wishes to put at risk consequently has little gains as a result. A basic rule of investing is if one has little to loose, then risk it. 

What's the harm if it's lost?

In business, seeking a big payday, not playing with scared money can be easily applied. Soliciting an unlikely but good client who would pay top dollar for my services, is a good applicable example. 

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I was a Teenage Ditch Digger

 The following is an excerpt from Shut Up & Draw: A Journey to Creativity


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Because of my intrinsic belief system, as a child, I felt somewhat of an oddball as I was more of a reflective type of kid. I preferred to read books, write stories, and draw but 

I never imagined indulging in these practices as a career. 

How could I? The adults in my life never thought of it that way either. To them it was a nice talent for a quiet boy, and a good hobby but it was no way to earn a living. To do that it was necessary for me to get a job and do what I was told so I could  pay the bills.

pay the bills.

This programming has stayed with me for most of my adult life even after I became self-employed in a non-artistic field. It's been hard to reprogram. 

Becoming self employed when I did (albeit in a blue-collar capacity) I became associated with other self-employed business people who were not as timid about following their aspirations which was contrary to my 

"play it safe" programming.

It's worth noting that even in such an optimistic environment I still sensed the reluctance to share my vision overtly. This has to do with whom we choose to share our vision.

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Friday, July 14, 2023

You're a what? (Two minute read)


 "The chief enemy of creativity is good sense."

Pablo Picasso

Being a creative person has a misleading reputation surrounding it and among the confusion is how so many artists have given us the impression that to be creative you must empty your mind of all thought and plug into the spiritual realm of your being. 

Many profess either overtly or by inference, you must be in touch with some other heavenly part of the universe that takes you somewhere without self input as if you're not in control of the outcome

As remarkable as this sounds to some, it simply isn't true. Many pretentious artists, who wish to be venerated, want us to envision their creativity as something that has been gifted to them from the gods on high and with such a pronouncement it often discourages many from even attempting to draw declaring...

"I'm no artist"

The truth of the matter is that creativity in general and drawing specifically is a skill that can be learned with practice like any other progressive skill such as math, welding or selling insurance.

Creativity in general can be practiced and like any other part of the mind you focus upon, the more you use it for creative purposes the easier it becomes. 

It's true that drawing specifically lends itself to mindfulness and focus, but it's similar to the way a mathematician focuses on solving a calculation. Like many other activities, some people are predisposed to it. Mozart was a musical prodigy, Michelangelo was masterful and these traits were often reflected in their personalities and their approach to everyday things, but by no means does this disqualify anyone else from learning to tap into their own creative potential.

There is no compulsory temperament a person needs to possess in order to be a creative person. No one must be either introverted or extroverted, neither eccentric or plain. 

My wife put it to me this way:

"Shut Up and Draw"

This article and accompanying illustrations is an excerpt from 

Shut Up and Draw: A Journey to Creativity.


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Monday, July 10, 2023

Learning to Win


 

(Two Minute Read)

They say failure is just another step in the learning process. Ted Turner, as owner of the Atlanta Braves, when asked during the teams rebuilding process, how he felt about all the losses incurred in the interim said, 

"we weren't loosing. We were learning how to win". 

All fine and dandy but it still doesn't make loosing and failing any easier. At least not to most people, me especially. 

My virtual mentor, Dan Miller, (48 days Podcast) brought up the subject when he read a letter from a listener who said "sometimes it's prudent for a person to quit wanting what they want because there comes a point of realization that the dream will never become a reality. Consistent failure leads to deep depression and one must come to the conclusion that loosers are a fact of life". 

Yikes!

Mr. Miller addressed this and, for me, the most meaningful point of  the conversation came when he suggested that if my business life isn't where I want it to be or is failing, then take a look at my personal life because the state of one's personal habits and practices are reflected in the business life. 

  • How are my relationships? Do I have a date night with my spouse? Do I tell her I love her? Do I call my mother regularly? If not then I'm setting up my personal life for failure.
  • How's my health? Do I eat badly? Junk food, processed food? Do I exercise? If I'm not living a healthy lifestyle then am I not setting up my health for failure?
  • What are my personal finances like? Am I in debt? Do I impulse buy? Do I budget my money and stick to it? Do I save? If so, my personal finances are at risk of failure.
  • There is also the question of my personal and spiritual development. Do I spend an hour a day reading quality books and articles? Do I have a period of personal devotion? If not, again, I'm setting myself up for failure in that area. 
  • My personal habits also play an important role. Do I stay up late watching TV. Do I sleep late in the mornings? Do I indulge in useless, pointless online videos? If I'm not making good choices in my personal habits then I'm again setting myself up for failure. 

Mr. Miller chose 5 areas in ones life to help a person either finally succeed or come back from failure.

  1. Loving relationships
  2. Uncompromising integrity
  3. A clear purpose
  4. Vibrant health
  5. Optimistic faith
We all make mistakes. We loose, we fail but as Robert Kiyosaki said in Rich Dad Poor Dad, an entrepreneur's job is to make mistakes. To make no mistakes is the job of an employee.  

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